Because sometimes a status update just isn't enough.

Because sometimes a status update just isn't enough.

24 October 2012

Three days in the Twilight Zone

*Author's note:  No Canadians were harmed in the writing of this blog.

*Poutine:  French fries with gravy and cheese curd.

Late Monday morning, I apparently entered a parallel universe that was inhabited by strange people who were determined to talk to me.  

And by "strange" I mean "stupid."  

In case you were wondering.

I thought the first incident was a fluke, that perhaps I'd accidentally gone to the post office at the wrong time and bumped into someone who'd never left northern New York.  (You'd be shocked at how often that happens.)  

As I was waltzing in to pick up the mail I smiled brightly at the middle-aged woman who was holding the door for me.

Her:  "Is it nice enough out there for ya?"

Me:  "Oh yeah, for sure!  It's gorgeous!"

Her:  "So where are you from?"

Ummmm...  what?

Me:  "I moved here a year or so ago from California."

Her:  *doubtfully*  "California?"

Me:  "Um... yeah?"

Her:   "Oh... I thought you were from Sweden or Norway or somewhere over there."

Sweden or Norway?

Why, because they're so known for their short, fat, brunette women?

Her:  "Because of your accent."

Of course.  That makes perfect sense.

In exactly the same way that I sound like I'm Swedish.

Later that same day, I was informed on a friend's Facebook wall by a perfect stranger that I'm Facebooking wrong.

I'm Facebooking wrong.

I'm Facebooking... wrong.


I made a simple comment on a friend's status update, which was a direct response to what he had posted.  The post was somewhat political in nature, but that's neither here nor there.

My comment was then commented upon by a person I don't know with a different political opinion than mine.

I said "I don't argue with strangers on my friend's facebook walls."

And I even included a smiley face emoticon.

Because I'm that goddamn nice.

Fuck off and die, k?

As it turns out, in the parallel universe "I don't argue with strangers on my friend's facebook wall" translates into, "Please keep arguing with me and showing me how wrong I am and how right you are... that's exactly why I'm here."

So THEN I said, because let's face it, I'm kind of a bitch, "Oh, I get it... you're a right fighter!  Awesomeness!  Okay, you're right."


Still waiting for you to fuck off and die!!

As it turns out, in the Twilight Zone?  Calling someone a "right fighter" is almost exactly the same as calling them a racist.

Because after I said that, HE responded with THIS:  "Of course, attack me personally!  Might as well call me an extremist, a racist, and a bigot while you're at it like most liberals do to conservatives who have an opinion that's different from theirs."

(I feel the need to insert here that nothing in the original status update in anyway denigrated Conservatives, nor did my response denigrate Conservatives.  It was actually a discussion on how much money is spent on campaigning for political office.)

Anyway, THIS is where he told me I'm Facebooking wrong:

"This IS facebook, a social network.  People post comments for others to discuss and comment on, have mini debates, etc.  If you don't expect anyone to comment on your comment, send a PM next time."

OHHHhhhhh... because, see, I thought Facebook was a tool for me to keep in touch with my family and friends.

Silly, SILLY me.  I had no idea it was specifically to be used as a forum for debate.

Thank goodness I was set straight by Lord God King Facebook Rule Maker.

I will, indeed, send a private message next time, so as not to use social media incorrectly.

Also?  Note to self:  Right Fighter means "extremist, racist, and bigoted."  So yeah... I totally should have just called him a douchebag and let it go.

Got it.

I had high hopes for Tuesday, I truly did.

Monday is usually an asshole, which would totally explain it, right?

Of COURSE right.

Tuesday is like the Ugly Redheaded Stepchild of the week... so it tries super hard to please.

Tuesday would be good.

I would make Tuesday my bitch.

Tuesday had other ideas.

Tuesday in the Twilight Zone went like this:

First?  I started my period.

Then?  Jessie, the happiest child in the universe, went from singing happy songs about her breakfast to bawling as she got on the school bus because I said something that hurt her feelings.

I have no idea what it was.

Neither did she.

Me:  "Jessie?  What's wrong?  Why are you crying?"

Jessie:  *tears overflowing her China blue eyes and looking exactly like Cindy Lou Who*  "I don't know."

Me:  "Are you sad?"

Jessie:  *nodding*

Me:  "Did Aunt Dani do something to make you sad?"

Jessie:  *nodding*

Me:  "What did I do, honey?  You can tell me.  I don't ever want to hurt your feelings or make you cry."

Jessie:  *gulping back sobs*  "I don't know."

What the hell???  I would have my mouth sewn shut before I would say something to hurt that child.

Fucking Tuesday.

After Jessie left for school, I went about the business of cleaning the house.  My mother is arriving sometime tomorrow (cue sound track from Jaws) and naturally, that means I suddenly can't stop procrastinating.

Lifting a dust cloth is soooo much wooork.  It's sooooo heavyyyyyy.

In other words, since learning my mother would be arriving, I haven't managed to clean a thing.  It's like I physically just can't do it.  Because I know she's coming.  And I know it needs to be done.  So I don't want to do it.

Oh, never mind.

Suffice it to say, as I was vacuuming, I suddenly realized that the vacuum cleaner was doing more spreading the dog hair around than actually sucking it up.

Son of a mo fo, yo.

Since this vacuum cleaner was specifically made to de-pet hair a house, the one damn thing it should be doing is suck up dog hair.

The one damn thing.

*cue hissy fit*

*cue the utterance of many, many, MANY bad words*

*cue me saying "fuckitall" and going to the store to get groceries instead of cleaning my house*

And that's where I once again entered Bizzaro World.

Things went smoothy until I couldn't find the polenta.

I found a shelf stocker and asked, "Do you know where I could find polenta?"

You have no idea what a freaking can of worms THAT opened.

It took FOUR PEOPLE to help locate the polenta...


It wasn't in the Mexican food aisle (which basically is two shelves that contain Taco Bell Complete Dinner Packs and refried beans).

It wasn't in the produce section with the health food and gluten free stuff.

It wasn't in the gluten free aisle.

It wasn't in the pasta aisle, or the baking aisle, or the bread aisle.

It wasn't even lingering amongst the canned goods.

Would you like to know where it was?  Would you?

Because I'm going to tell you where it was:

It was in the refrigerator section with the Pillsbury Pop 'N Fresh products.

It's like, since no one knew what it was, they didn't quite know where to put it.  So they put it someplace where they thought it might make sense.

Let me now share with you the conversations I had regarding polenta:

Every store person that tried to help:  "What is polenta?"

Me:  "It's corn meal, usually sold in a tube."

Every single store person:  "?????"

Me:  "Like grits?  Only in a tube?  Already made?  Only thicker, and you slice it and fry it or grill it?"

Every single store person:  "?????"

Me:  "Okay, like, you know the stuff on the outside of a tamale?  Not the husk, but the yellow stuff inside that's stuffed with meat?"

Every single store person:  "A what?"

Me:  "A tamale?  You know, a tamale?  Tamale?"

By this time, I'd reached the point where I felt like I was speaking a foreign language so I started speaking slowly and loudly, like most Americans do when faced with people who don't habla Ingles, assuming that would help them understand.

In my quest for polenta, I'd become an Ugly American.


Every single store person:  "I don't know what that is..."

Fucking A, you guys.

Me:  "Ummm... it's like, corn bread only sticky and not dry."  (Because damned if I was going to use the word "moist."  You're welcome.)

Eventually, it was determined that the store carried no such thing, so I slowly cruised up and down every aisle anyway, hoping it would leap out and grab me.

And like I said, it finally did, mixed in with biscuits, cookies, and cinnamon rolls.

Shockingly, it hadn't expired, though I admit to being a tad leery about when it may have been put there.

And by whom.

I had to repeat my entire performance when I was checking out at the register.

Fuck me hard, y'all.

I was annoyed.

Stop eating goddamn poutine, you friggin' almost Canadians.  First of all, it's disgusting, and second of all, it's just wrong.  

Eat polenta.  It's glorious.

Poutine.  Don't even ask what this shit is... they serve it everywhere here.  It's like the National Dish of Canada and Northern New York.  

And then?

Today brought with it the weirdest exchange I've ever had with a complete stranger.

I'm still not sure if I was complimented or insulted.

Also?  I feel slightly violated, somehow.

Let's break it down, shall we?



I went down to the village market (because I live in a village, don'tcha know.  Not a town, not a city, a village.  Because "town" and "city" mean totally different things on the east coast than they do in the west.  And I still don't get it.  But whatever... when in Rome, live in a village.  Accept that poutine happens.  I won't pretend to understand, but I will speak in their native tongue whenever possible.)

Anyway, back to the village market.

I picked up a few necessities of life that I didn't feel like driving into the bigger village 15 miles away to purchase, like bottled water (because I'm a snob), diet Pepsi (because I was so involved in the friggin' polenta fiasco yesterday that I totally forgot I was out), and fresh cheese curd (because, you know... it's awesome).  As I was paying, the woman behind the register, who obviously hadn't looked at a magazine since 1979, said, "How many different colors of eye shadow do you have on there?"

I have literally never been asked that question.


Me:  *because I'm hella freaking polite*  "Three?"

Her:  "Well, you don't say.  I've never seen so many colors at one time!"  At which point she emitted a smokers laugh/cough combo that nearly blew my hair back.

Me:  *smiling stupidly because I'm not sure how to communicate with people in a parallel universe*  "Oh... heh heh..."

Her:  "So where'd you get that idea?"

Me:  "Ummmm... Cosmo?  Circa 1980?"

Her:  "What's that now?"

Me:  "Cosmo?  The magazine?  I've been doing this forever."

Her:  "You have?  I don't think I've ever seen that much eyeshadow at one time!"  *cue another smokey laugh that ended with one of her lungs lying on the counter*

(I feel the need to point out here that this woman was at least 50, her huge boobs were falling out of the neckline of her stretched out t-shirt, her hair was parted down the middle and pulled back on both sides in barrettes, and she was smoking at the register.  But yeah... I'm the one that looked like a whore because I was wearing three different shades of eye shadow.)

What she apparently thought I looked like:

I mean, granted:  I love make-up.  I wear make-up.  I put make-up on whether I'm leaving the house or not, because I like to.  Sometimes I do dramatic things with my eyes, but usually I just blend three colors, add eyeliner and mascara, and call it good.

Today was one of those days.

What I actually looked like:

Pardon the really bad angle.   And my bra strap.  Okay, and my arm and neck fat. 

Suffice it to say, I'm ready for the Mothership to return the humans to Earth and take all the Cyborgs back to Glom, or whever the hell they're from.



  1. Ya hit another one out of the park with today's rant.
    I grew up eating steak fries with brown gravy only we called it "steak fries with brown gravy". I know...kooky and unexpected. BTW, its delish.
    Smoking at the check out? What alien planet allows people to smoke in public anymore? Especially where food or children are present. Or grumpy middle aged women looking for bottled water and polenta.
    P.S. Enjoy the visit!

    1. Poutine is fries with gravy, which is already disgusting (in my book, mostly because I hate gravy... I know, I know, revoke my True Fatty card) and cheese curd. //hurl

      Everyone smokes here. Everyone. Without shame, without guilt... there's a huge part of me that admires that even though I know it's so very, very wrong.

  2. Seriously, aren't you like three hours from Syracuse? Could you just make your way down here so I can try to begin to prove that the entire state isn't backwards? I mean, I am sure some NYC folks think things go wacky past Albany, but it isn't true!

    1. Please tell me you wear at least two different shades of eyeshadow and don't partake of the demon food, poutine...



    2. You need to come teach me how to wear eye shadow, as I currently wear none! But to redeem myself, w did not even try pouting in Canada AND my family makes homemade polenta!

    3. I would lurve to skool you on make-up!!! And I love homemade polenta!!!

      You have renewed my faith in NY.

    4. However, all of my typos may cause you to lose faith again...what was I doing? Or is poutine so bad it autocorrected to pouting?

  3. This literally made my palms sweat. And further convinced me to remain a shut in. And I bloody well love your make-up, so there! :) *hyperventilating into a brown paper sack*

    1. THANK YOU.

      I, too, am considering becoming agoraphobic, just so I don't feel like such a stranger in a strange land. (Please read that with a foreign accent.)


  4. Ok, so you know I have to ask . . . what is poutine? It looked like fries with gravy and . . . something else. I love fries with gravy. I am wary of the something else.

    I'm glad to know it's not just me this week. People have been insane. I think the mothership landed. Be prepared for an attack. Protect your anuses, y'all.

    1. Fries with gravy reminds me of my ex husband, suhprise suhprise, who is also from Maryland. I'd personally never heard of anyone eating fries covered with gravy until I met him and I confess to being slightly horrified. I tried it once. Yuck.

      Poutine is fries with gravy and cheese curd.

      I love cheese curd. I think it's blasphemous to cover it with gravy.

      The whole thing looks like a total mess.

      And yes, I am wearing my anal shield AS WE SPEAK.


  5. People suck more than a back alley hooker trying to get a fix. That's why I hate them.

  6. I live in the South, I eat Polenta, AND I wear 3 different colors of eye shadow with LIQUID eyeliner DAILY. That old bag was cray cray!!

  7. Replies
    1. Poutine is horrifying. I know this even though I've never actually sat at a table with anyone eating it.

      I love the south. All y'all know how to wear make-up and damned if you don't know how to eat.

    2. Aaaaaaaannnnndddd THAT'S why I'm a fatass. But hey, I'm a fatass with my "Face" on & my hurr did!!

  8. Let me get this straight. The check out woman commented on your appearance. Twice. Why didn't you smack her with your polenta roll? Or at least shove her cigarette down her neck.

    Lots of people put gravy on their chips here, but I'm not sure what cheese curd is (the word curd makes me gag), so poutine does not appeal to me.

    Where the hell are you? Is there breatheable air or are you in a space suit?

    1. I'm actually BACK in time, not in the space age. It's still 1984 in northern NY. If I wanted to rock big bangs jacked up to Jesus and get a perm I'd be right in style.

      *Sigh* I miss the year 2012...

  9. I have neVer bought the stuff (yet?) but in case you are eVer in my local groc store it is on aisle 4, on the west side, neXt to the top shelf, 75 percent of the way towards the south end. WeLL, it is until they decide to "rearrange the store AGAIN to make shoppin' mo' stream lined for aLL y'aLL".

    1. I think you need to be a trend setter and BUY POLENTA.

      Soon it will be all the rage in Boston. Everyone will be buying it up and the stores will run out and all the Bostonites will be, "Well, that's a real pissahhhh..."

  10. What a Fucking Stupid TwatWeasle! If that's bad you should see me when I throw it down! I think you look gorgeous! That's IT!! I'm gonna come up there, and me and you are gonna eat non gluten shit, and drink non gluten shit, and go make fun of crazy bitches like her. OMH! That would be fun! *on a side note, perhaps we will get me some help for my tourettes, as it's obviously needed! LOL*

    1. I heard vodka cures tourettes... or encourages it... either way, I'm in. Vodka is gluten free. That makes me happier than a fat kid at a cake eating contest.

      Love you long time!!

  11. Poutine made me throw up in my mouth!! YACK!!! Do you know what?? Not to brag or anything, but our local grocery store has 4 different flavors of polenta! FOUR!! And they are in the spices/crouton area. I can send you some!

  12. Holy. Effing. Crap. Polenta is like grits?!? I must try this.

    Sorry... I'm easily distracted.




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